If you’re anything like us,
those heady days of newly sharpened pencils and crisp notebooks are over, possibly
lost alongside the pack of cute erasers you bought last summer in anticipation
of the new school year. The initial burst of enthusiasm at our house lasted a
good six weeks before tapering off to a dull drudgery of complaints and reminders,
punctuated by daily battles of wills.
You see, my lovely children, who
had started off the year tackling challenging learning activities head-on, started
exercising their freedom of choice in a way I did not appreciate.
Now, freedom of choice within limits is a big deal in the Montessori world
for a lot of reasons.
Children are more motivated
to learn when they choose their own work. (Aren’t we all!)
Freedom of choice allows each
child to work at his or her own level within the schoolroom.
And allowing children to make
decisions fosters independence and positive self-esteem.
I truly believe in the
Montessori philosophy of freedom of choice. It’s why, each month, I fill the
shelves with activities aligned with our monthly work plan, prepare myself for
the coordinating lessons, and (attempt to) let the boys lead the way.
But by late September, my
sons began choosing the same, simple jobs over and over again – not because
they were engaging with the work, but because they were actively avoiding
anything that required time, effort, or (gasp!) thinking.
In fairness to them, they
were doing lots of thinking outside of the school room...
Building elaborate structures
with Rokenbok. (Highly recommend Rokenbok if you’re looking for Christmas
ideas.)
Designing, testing, and
redesigning their own plans for paper airplanes.
And memorizing hundreds of
animal facts they learned watching Wild Kratts.
But as much as I absolutely
love seeing them working on those sorts of things, their school room work is
important to me, too.
As such, I found myself,
daily, uttering the words they most despise.
You’re welcome to choose that job, but
you also need to choose a challenging work this morning.
Morning invariably slipped
into afternoon. Every day.
My sons went from being
(relatively) independent, content workers, to being almost completely dependent
on me. They spent their school time guessing what I would approve, and never
quite knowing when they would be free.
And instead of the kind,
encouraging, facilitator of learning I imagined I’d be, I became a nagging,
frustrated warden I hated.
After multiple venting
sessions with my husband, I finally realized that our boys needed a little more
structure in our school room. I wanted to maintain their Montessori-style
freedom of choice and allow time for exploration of their interests, but still
encourage them to choose challenging work and make progress on their monthly
work plans.
The result was a Weekly Work Plan.
Here’s how it works.
There are 5 columns on the
plan, labeled: Math, Language, Social Studies, Science, and Daily.
Using each child’s monthly
work plan as a guide, I list 3-5 activities in each subject area that he should
complete during the week, placing each activity in a block for that column. In
the “Daily” column, I list reading and music practice.
If the activity is a new lesson or requires my guidance in some way, I write (with Mom) in the box. If I want them to work together on an activity, that’s also included on the plan.
Because we stick pretty
closely to the Montessori curriculum, which contains considerable interleaving
within each subject area, the boys can often choose which order they’d like to
complete the activities on their Weekly Plan. If there’s an activity they need
to do before they can complete another (For example – working with the North
American animal nomenclature cards before choosing an animal to research), I
put a (1) beside the job.
At the bottom of the plan,
there is room for them to write in 3 additional work choices that aren’t on
already specified on the plan.
The parameters are that the
boys must choose at least one math and one language job each school day, in
addition to one social studies or science activity, but when they finish the
Plan, they’re done for the week!
This is only our third week
using the Weekly Work Plans, and I’m not going to lie – I’m still working out what
the “right” number of activities is for each of my sons. (I imagine this will
change every week, depending on what the activities are.)
Overall, though, we are loving the Weekly Plans.
Overall, though, we are loving the Weekly Plans.
The boys still have their
freedom of choice. They can see what’s expected, and have opportunities to follow their own interests. Even better, they’re taking on the responsibility of managing their school time wisely.
I'm happy that they're back to making progress on their monthly work plans and engaging with the work on the shelves. And with the boys free to work on their own projects in the afternoons, I’m getting a little time for myself again, which - let's face it - is always good for my sanity. Heck, just yesterday, I found those cute
erasers I bought last summer.
Download your FREE customizable Weekly Work Plan for your elementary-aged child HERE.
Download your FREE customizable Weekly Work Plan for your elementary-aged child HERE.
Stacey, I love this idea! It is a great happy medium between little guidance and a daily to-do list, plus you're totally teaching them time management! Well done!
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